Can you go with the flow?
1. I feel the need to be in control of most situations.
2. At work, I micromanage others or try to control all parts of a project.
3. I restrict how my loved ones spend their time and who they see.
4. I tend to manipulate situations to get my desired outcomes.
5. I’m happy to defer to others when making group decisions.
6. I want to have complete control over my emotions.
7. In a romantic relationship, I tend to control the finances.
8. I make others do things that they may not want to do.
9. I sometimes put people down when they get “too big for their boots”.
10. I trust my partner and don’t question their whereabouts or behaviors.
11. When I get sick, I feel anxious that I can’t control my body.
12. I tend to micromanage others' activities.
13. Self-discipline is important to me.
14. I find it difficult to accept other people's decisions without objection.
15. I feel responsible for others' happiness.
16. I feel comfortable in new situations, even if I don't know what will happen.
17. When dealing with a medical problem, I'm anxious to understand all aspects of it.
18. I pester people if they’re not doing what I want.
19. I expect others to follow my instructions.
20. It’s important to maintain control in stressful situations.