Are You Too Obsessed With Someone?

Limerence is the desire to be desired. Someone experiencing limerence is not necessarily in love or even attracted to the object of their desire, but they are obsessed with whether or not the other person likes them. Limerence can make someone feel monomaniacal, focused excessively on any detail that would indicate if their feelings are reciprocated.

1. My thoughts about this person are intrusive.

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2. My thoughts about this person are persistent.

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3. I feel self-conscious when I’m around this person.

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4. I’m not sure what the other person thinks about me.

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5. I try to conceal my obsession with this person.

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6. I am physically attracted to the person.

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7. I replay and analyze the words the other person says to me.

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8. I analyze the other person’s body language when they interact with me.

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9. I feel incredible when I think about this person.

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10. Life feels like a daydream when I’m around this person.

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11. If the person ignores me, I feel anxiety or distress.

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12. I fear rejection from this person.

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13. I’ve looked up enough biographical information on the person that I feel like I know them well.

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14. I feel euphoric when the person gives me attention.

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15. My mood is greatly influenced by my interactions with this person.

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16. I have trouble focusing on other parts of life because I can’t think of anything other than this person.

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17. I care deeply about the well-being of this person.

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18. I am over the moon if there’s a hint of reciprocity from this person.

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