Overfunctioning in Relationships Test

2. I feel anxious when my partner is in charge of something important, like booking a flight.

3. I meticulously plan social outings to make sure my partner won't get bored.

4. Whenever a new problem arises, I'm the one to jump in to fix it.

5. I lack time to take care of myself because I’m doing so much for our relationship.

6. It bothers me when my partner doesn’t take my advice on a problem.

7. When I want my partner to achieve a goal, such as exercising more, I create a plan for them to follow.

8. I need to remind my partner to do routine personal tasks, like taking their medication.

9. I often answer questions that are directed at my partner.

10. I frequently check in with my partner to make sure they’re doing what they plan to do.

11. I feel calmer when I’m the one who’s in control of our responsibilities.

12. If my partner tells me they can handle something important, I believe them.

13. Even if I try to delegate a task to my partner, I usually end up doing it myself anyway.

14. When my partner does a task, such as loading the dishwasher, I often need to supervise.

15. If I took a break from handling everything, our life would completely fall apart.

16. I sometimes focus more on meeting my partner’s needs than meeting my own.

17. I pass along helpful, unsolicited articles to my partner.

18. I have felt more like a parent than a partner in my relationship.

19. Unless they ask for my help, I let my partner handle their own problems.

20. Just doing something myself is easier than asking my partner to handle it.