Passive Aggression Test

2. If I am unhappy with a colleague or classmate’s effort or commitment, I’ll probably just start doing the minimum required of me.

3. I have mocked people I’m unhappy with by being sarcastic, then pretending it was just a joke.

4. If I had information that would help someone I don’t much like, I would still share it with them.

5. I have given someone I’m unhappy with the silent treatment.

6. When someone tries to support me, I might resist their help because I don’t really believe I deserve it.

7. After an argument with my romantic partner, I have refused to show them any warmth or affection.

8. I have come up with excuses like “I forgot” to avoid doing things for or with someone I’m unhappy with.

9. If someone has annoyed me, I might reduce my involvement or commitment in our joint projects.

10. I have intentionally revealed embarrassing past events or secrets of someone who has annoyed me.

11. When someone I care about has hurt me, I might halt our regular interactions like walks together or regular calls.

12. When someone I’m unhappy with asks me to do something, I might do it wrong, then make excuses like “I didn’t know it was important.”

13. When a friend disappoints me, I won't engage with them until they reach out to me.

14. When someone compliments me, but I don’t think I deserve it, I will probably believe they're just trying to be nice.

15. When I feel down, I might not let myself do things or activities that might be good for me or cheer me up.

16. Even if someone has declined to help me with a problem, I’m still willing to help them out.

17. If I think my partner has ignored my needs, I might get payback by doing things like cooking or shopping just for me.

18. I have deliberately stalled or delayed someone just to make them miserable.

19. Sometimes I feel the need for affection or positive contact, but I still plow ahead with my routine instead.

20. I can cut ties with someone who has made me upset even if I know it might hurt them.