For some people, being single is a source of extreme frustration, stress, and discomfort. For others, it’s no big deal; singlehood feels natural and they feel no pressure to change that. Which group do you belong in? Take this test to find out.
1. My social life is full and satisfying whether or not I have a partner.
2. It matters to me that I’m in charge of myself and not obligated to check in with anyone.
3. I’m happy for couples who marry, not envious.
4. I like doing challenging things on my own without anyone’s help.
5. I feel uncomfortable when I’m alone.
6. I prefer not being responsible for another person or their happiness.
7. I have generally felt unfulfilled in committed relationships.
8. I like being able to build the life I want, including making changes when I want.
9. Sexual freedom is important to me. I want to be able to be with whoever I want.
10. I value being able to use my time the way I want.
11. I don’t desire to take care of someone else or have to deal with their problems.
12. My self-esteem is not dependent on whether I’m in a relationship.
13. I am very satisfied with my social connections with friends and family.
14. I place a high value on my personal freedom.
15. I don’t fear time alone; I actually savor it.
16. I sometimes worry that I will be single forever.
17. I want to eat what I want without worrying about someone else’s judgment or preferences.
18. Hearing about friends’ relationships doesn’t make me feel like I’m missing out.
19. Maintaining a steady, peaceful life is more important to me than seeking a partner.
20. I prefer to make major decisions about my life on my own.